Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Wondering

I wonder why women think that it's okay for everyone else to get a second and third wife--or even a fourth wife, but it's never okay for them. I don't get that at all. And I don't get women who stop talking with someone just because they're the second wife. I hate that alot of second wifes are accused of being husband snatchers----which may be true in some cases, but its not the general rule. Alot of women become second wifes because it was meant for them to be second wifes. A second wife in islam isn't like a mistress, were a mistress gets no rights whatsoever--a second wife---gets the same set of rights as the first wife.

2 comments:

Gemini Girl said...

her sircumistances put her in a such situation to be a sec. wife, for sure she should have the same rights that the 1st one has but you know we are all women and we know we are jealous...

Hebah said...

That's so true, even second wifes get jealous of the first wife--or third and fourth wife.