"I can give you the money to pay the taxes." "It doesn't work like that I need to have a job, and I need to show that I have paid taxes in the last three years." "You can be a joint sponsor-----meaning you can add your income to my income, but as it points out---I need to have my own income." "Which I obviously don't have, sense I don't have a job." "I need to have a permenant job, (the money I make and the money you make----) both need to come from the same source, after we have immigrated.) So if I get a job over here, and we go to America, I will have to leave my job over here and get a job over there, and you would have to do the same thing, meaning that requirment won't work. "MY friend is telling me one thing, and the lawyer is telling me another thing, and you are telling me yet another thing." "I am only telling you that I cannot sponsor you, I have told you the reasons why." "I don't think you want me to immigrate to America." "I did not say that, I just said that I cannot sponsor you." "What about business based forms, where you can sponsor yourself." "I don't need that." "See you are depending on me to help you, I'm giving you a way that you can go to America, without me having to sponsor you, and you are completely against it." "Just type up all the requirments that is needed, the most important form is the family based form." "Fine, but I keep on telling you, I cannot sponsor you." "Please just type up the requirmeents needed print them out, and we can discuss them later." "Fine," "I get the feeling that you don't want to do this." "That is not it, I have been through this so many times, and I have told you that I cannot sponsor you." "You and your father are wrong if you think that America is a dream to me." "Don't put words in my mouth, I don't know what my father said, but I never once thought that America was the dream place for you." "My friends are telling me that I need to protect myself, America will protect me." "God is the protector."