There is nothing worse---well there probably is, than dancing in front of a room full of people, when you don't know how to dance, or your dress is too big for you.... of course part of growing up, is going out of your comfort zone which makes sense. You cannot grow and florish if you're going to stick to the same routine, and stay in your comfort zone, you have to remove yourself from your comfort zone in order to grow. That of course isn't always easy, than again, nothing in life that is worthwhile is easy.